Best 100 Questions To Ask Your Partner Before Marriage
Best 100 Questions To Ask Your Partner Before Marriage
Questions To Ask Your Partner Before Marriage
- What kind of relationship would you be expecting from your partner?
- What is the obvious number of kids you had in your mind?
- What kind of moral and religious beliefs do you want to pass on your children?
- Would you like to consider the style of parenting before having kids?
- What would be your reaction if your child tell he is homo, gay or lesbian?
- How will you deal with the trauma of your child, if he/she does something terrible?
- How will you deal with the situation where your child tells you that he doesn’t want to pursue his education or career?
- What will you be doing to secure our and our children’s future?
- How many children do you usually have in your families?
- What is your comfort level around children?
- How will you make our Birthdays and Christmas or any special occasion memorable?
- Would you disagree with the idea that we leave our kids with our parents so they can watch them while we can enjoy a date?
- What is your go to regarding public and private schools? What will you be considering for your children?
- Do you like the idea of homeschooling?
- What will be your reaction if the doctor tells us that we are unable to have children?
- If we couldn’t have kids naturally would you be willing to seek help from professionals?
- Will you consider the idea of adoption or would you like to go with the IVF?
- How would you discipline your child in public?
- What do you think about scolding your child?
- How did you feel when your parents scolded you in your childhood?
- What distance would you like to have between kids?
- Would you be okay with your relatives to watch over our children or will you be preferring the day-care?
- How would you react if your children wanted to join the military or army rather than to go to college?
- What role will the grandparents be playing in the parenting, and how much would they be involved?
- How will we reach a common ground regarding parental decisions?
- How will you attain a balance between work and family?
- Would you consider going to couples therapy if we were having problems in our marriage?
- If there is a conflict between my family and yours how will you deal with the situation?
- How will you take the criticism from your partner?
- At which point will you consider the option of divorce?
- Do you like to discuss issues as soon as they arrive or do you like to talk after some time or when you are facing lesser problems?
- What will be your communication style?
- How will you tell if you are not satisfied sexually?
- What do you think is the best way to deal with conflicts and disagreement in marriage?
- How can we both improve ourselves regarding communication?
- What do you think about infidelity? What are your views on it?
- What do you think about marriage connecting it with religion?
- What kind of religious expectations do you have from a marriage?
- Have you sorted out your priorities regarding work and family life?
- How do you see politics and what are your beliefs and views about it?
- Do you have political tolerance?
- What do you think about birth control?
- Do you think that aborting a child is sin?
- When do you think you will be ready for children after marriage?
- After a fight, how much time and space will you need to get normal?
- What kind of future life are you expecting, rich or poor?
- Have you decided who will be taking the major decisions of the household and family?
- Would you believe it if someone says something terrible about me?
- Would you keep your spouse above your family?
- What role do you think a wife plays in a man’s life?
- What are your religious views regarding duties of a husband and a wife?
- Do you think household chores are the responsibility of the women?
- Do you acknowledge that you have basic life surviving skills and you do not rely on your wife for it?
- What is the role of a husband in the wife’s life?
- How do you think both husband and wife can impact each other lives positively?
- Do you have any type of current debt?
- How much is your current debt?
- What do you think about your current job?
- Do you think that you are going to make abrupt changes in your career?
- Would you dedicate all your money to your family and or will split the money into half?
- How do you like to save money and what are your beliefs about saving money?
- How do you like to spend money?
- What will you do if we both want something badly but we are unable to afford it?
- How well are you about organising stuff and finances?
- Do you maintain a budget?
- Do you plan how much you are going to spend this month?
- Do you think that one should save money for his retired life?
- How do you feel about having debt?
- Will you agree to do a second job if we can’t make peace with our finances?
- What will you do if your close friend or relative demands to borrow a large amount of money?
- Who will be responsible for the maintenance of household finances?
- Do you like to travel?
- Do you think that you are going to travel a lot with your partner?
- Where would you like to go first with your partner?
- How much alone time is important to you?
- Do you like to be secluded?
- Will you feel okay if I go on a trip with my friends for a couple of weeks?
- What role do your friends play in your life?
- Do you think it is important to spend time with your friends?
- What is the perfect weekend evening for you?
- What will we do if we have a day off but we want to spend it differently?
- How frequently would you like to visit your parents?
- Would you accompany me in visiting my parents?
- How often will my parents and your parents visit us in a year?
- Do you have any record of genetic mishaps or abnormalities in your family?
- How will you react if one of your relatives says that they do not like me?
- What do you like to do on family occasions like Thanksgiving and Christmas?
- If your parents are sick, will you ask them to move in with us?
- If my parents are ill, will you do the same?
- Is anyone in your family a junkie or an addict?
- Do you think anyone in your family can hurt us somehow?
- Do you resist taking mental health treatments?
- If I have to go on a certain diet due to medical reasons, will you shift your diet for me?
- Do you like to exercise with your partner in order to be healthy?
- What is your dream location to live in?
- Will you mind if I have to leave the town due to my job?
- What are your major concerns and fears regarding marriage?
- What are your aspirations regarding your career?
- What will you do to keep the spark alive between us?
- What do you think are the best ways to keep loving each other in a marriage?